January:
Andrew was one of the 3 male
soloists in a performance of Beethoven's Choral Fantasy, with
16-year-old Korean pianist Euntaek Kim. It was eventually televised
on KET, and we have a video of the performance. One of the things I
miss the most is seeing Andrew sing. He had the most expressive
face, and especially so when he sang. So I guess if it gets too bad,
I can always pull out the video.
February:
Our new pastor and his family
arrived. (We had been without one since the last July). Serena and
I began a project on a grand scale clearing and cleaning the
dining room. (We've always eaten in the breakfast room. The dining
room has been a junk room ever since we moved here.) This was
brought on by an approaching visit from Ted's sister, Lucy, as well
as the prospect of a large banquet for the farm partners. It was my
idea, but I would never have started without Serena's urging. She
was the driving force behind the project. After 3 weeks of daily
rummaging through debris, throwing out lots (we loaded Ted's long
trailer for a trip to the dump), salvaging the salvageable, and
packing as few boxes as possible to store in the remaining junk room
upstairs, then cleaning the room from top to bottom, and pasting up
the falling wallpaper, we ended up with a room that is beautiful if
you don't look too closely! We've been able to use it for various
special occasions, some of which you will hear about in a minute.
March:
Lydia went to Rome, Paris, and
London with a group of home schoolers who have also been using the
KONOS History of the World curriculum during high school. She got to
see a lot of the architecture, art, and history that she had studied
for the last 3 years. That's her at the left, standing in front of 2
Swiss Guards in Rome, who guard the Pope. While Lydia was away, the
dining room was used for dining for the first time in 25 30
years! The occasion was a dinner for Ted's sister, Lucy, and some of
her childhood friends. We also had a very belated birthday meal for
Sarah while she was home on spring break. She brought 2 friends with
her from Covenant. Come see us this year, and I promise we will feed
you in the dining room! You've heard of stretch limousines? We have
a stretch table!
April:
The most notable event was the
Chenoweth Farm Partner Banquet, to commemorate the close of an era
(goodbye to cattle, closed last dairy, tobacco buyout). This was a
thank you to the farm's present and past partners in farming, hosted
by us on behalf of Ted's dad and uncle. Besides good food (we used
the dining room and the breakfast room, hosting about 25 people), we
were regaled with many hilarious stories from the past! This month,
Serena had a piano recital, Andrew went to Yu-gi-oh regionals, and
Lydia got a champion ribbon for her Insect Collecting demonstration
at the 4-H regional meet. Lydia and Serena also swept their
categories in sewing at the 4-H Fashion Review. You can see pictures
on our website under latest news.
May:
Serena and I went to Natural
Bridge State Park (KY) for a coming of age weekend. We
finished school!
Summer:
Andrew graduated from high
school! We were so proud as, handsome in his tux, he gave an
impressive speech at the ceremony, held at our church with family and
friends attending. Sarah, Andrew, and Lydia all three went on the
Mexico Mission Trip this year. We heard that Andrew was a hit with
the Mexican girls! To the left is a picture of his find in the
market. He and friends ate it all! Sarah came home a week before
the trip, and I had to take her back to Covenant College several days
after her return from Mexico. She worked in the grounds department
at Covenant (which she does for work-study during the school year)
full time for the summer. Largely due to this experience, I think,
she has developed an attraction to backhoes and very large diesel
trucks. In her defense, she also crochets and now enjoys cooking. I
guess she's a mixed bag! Lydia, ribbons in sewing aside, began
Karate. Andrew started a job as a security guard at a local
manufacturing plant. We enjoyed a visit from Ted's brother Stephen's
family in July, during which we went to see the Ink and Blood
exhibit in Lexington. It portrays the history of the Biblical texts
from the Dead Sea Scrolls to modern times. We also took in a local
production of 1776.
Great fun! I catered a meal for Emily and Ben Allen's bridge group
in, you guessed it, our new dining room. In August, Serena
made a trip to Chautauqua (NY) with her Nana for a King's Daughters
program. Emily also took us all to see March of the
Penguins. I highly recommend
it!
I almost forgot to mention a
milestone for the house: a new roof! Ted had been campaigning for
this for several years, and the owner brothers finally agreed
to do it when a company was found who could dispose of the old
asbestos shingles without added government red tape and expense. The
key was that this was a residence, not a commercial building. Now we
have a leak-free roof, and an attic blanketed in black grit. I don't
even want to think about that cleanup job!
September:
Besides starting school again,
this year with only two students, the most notable occurrence was
Serena's participation in a production of Aladdin, Jr., at our
local theatre. It involved a lot of re-hearsals, but was over in a
month and 1/2. We knew some of the main actors, which also made it
fun to see. Andrew died on the 25th, and life became a
blur for awhile. Our church family, neighbors, and friends wrapped us
in love in a wonderful way to help us through.
October:
This month already had plans
in place that we decided to go ahead with, even in the aftermath of
Andrew's death. We had planned a big fall cookout on the 8th,
which came off with beautiful weather and 112 folks in attendance.
We had shooting, horseback riding, creek and barn exploration,
volleyball, EATING, a hayride, and singing around the campfire. (You can see pictures from it here.) Even
though we invited a bunch, I think a larger percentage than usual
came because they were reaching out to us. I was astonished at the
people that came out of the woodwork, so to speak, at the visitation
and funeral, that we hadn't seen for many years. I was glad to see
them, but one thing I've learned through this experience is not to
wait until a funeral to go see friends and family. Let me pass that
nugget on to you all. Later in the month, Ted departed for 2
different conferences in Las Vegas. Before he returned, Serena and I
left with Emily to go to England/France to celebrate Lucy's 50th
birthday. (I know, I know. Last year I said I was staying home this
year. To use Sarah's phrase, So, sue me! It's hard to resist
almost-free travel.) This was a good break and removal from the sad
memories at home. At the same time, our hearts were longing to be
with the rest of the family, so both Serena and I felt a little torn,
wanting to be in 2 places at once.
November
December: Sarah joined us
again for Thanksgiving, traveling back and forth in Andrew's car,
which she had the use of for the semester. ( I must brag a little at
this point, just to notify you that both Ted and I lost 15 pounds in
time to celebrate for Thanksgiving! There are the the girls and me,
at left, in our new on sale outfits. I bought mine to
celebrate my thinner self!) We saw Sarah again soon afterward when we
took Ted's mom with us to Covenant to see Sarah perform in Madrigals.
This is an annual Medieval feast with between-course entertainment
by the Madrigal Singers, a brass group, another early music group,
and complete with a jester and sidekick. Sarah (right- with her sisters) had been trying out
every year for the Madrigal Singers, and finally made it this year.
We did not originally plan to go. After Andrew died, however, it
gave us a different perspective on savoring each day as it passes.
We spent the money and made the trip, and had an absolutely marvelous
time! The entertainment was well done, and the food was scrumptious.
We got to meet a number of Sarah's friends, as well as co-workers in
the grounds department. She had even arranged for us to sit at the
same table as her boss and his wife.
Aside
from the usual Christmas activities, those are the high points from
2005. We are not the same at the end of it as we were at the
beginning. But life moves on. We saw Sarah off January 5 on a plane
to England, where she is spending a semester at Oxford, taking
Philosophy tutorials. You won't hear about it until next year,
unless you are so curious that you are motivated to read her blog
occasionally to stay abreast of her observations on England, and
philosophical musings about studying in Oxford. If you are, you can find it here.
Tune
in next year for news of that, Lydia's graduation, and much more:
Will Ted and Beth manage to lose a final 10 pounds? Will they
actually get started on their house? What has happened to Ted's
business? Next year, same time, same channel...